Connecting with kids as a long-distance parent

Once parents end their romantic relationship, one parent may move to a new area. That makes it difficult for them to be able to be a constant fixture in their child’s life. While it might be challenging, staying in contact with the kids and building a strong relationship is possible even when there’s a long distance between the parent and the child.

If you’re in this situation, there are several things you can do. One of the most important is to be open to finding ways that you can connect with the children. 

Make the most of technology

Technology makes it easy for parents to stay connected with their children through virtual visits. Video chats, phone calls and text messages are all options that are widely available. You can use these to read books together or talk to them about their day. It might even be possible to play board games or video games with them. 

Prioritize in-person visits

In-person visits should always be a priority in these cases. Try to keep the schedule that’s set. If possible, consider working with your ex to make a surprise trip to see your child if you have a few days off work. Remember, having quality time with your children should be your goal each time you’re with your children.

The parenting plan should be set to ensure that the children are able to have contact with both parents. Because this is a long-distance parenting situation, terms must be set for various aspects of the arrangement, such as communication and transportation. Working with someone who’s familiar with these matters is beneficial so you can get these terms set appropriately.