3 benefits daughters get from having their dads around

A lot of children grow up seeing far less of their dads than their mums. Sometimes it has always been like that, other times it gets that way after a divorce.

Courts do not have an automatic preference for either mothers or fathers when looking at custody and parenting, but more children end up living with their mums after a divorce than with their dads, especially when the child is a girl.

Here is why research suggests that ensuring daughters still see their dads is crucial (except in cases where that would be dangerous).

1. Healthier relationships with men

A father’s love is important to a girl’s security and self-confidence. A lack of it can cause her to lack those two things. This can leave her more vulnerable to unsuitable relationships with other men, such as those who use showering a girl with “love” as a means of control and manipulation.

2. Mental health

The way dads play with their young daughters is often very different from how mothers do. They tend to be more likely to expose them to challenges, failure and knocks than mothers. This can help daughters build resilience and self-confidence, both of which can help them navigate the challenges of life they will face when they are older.

3. Money

Girls do better at school when they have their dad’s support, which can help them get better-paid jobs. The risk-taking and resilience that improve their mental health can also serve them well in their careers.

Creating the best custody and parenting plan for your child is not always easy. Learning more about your options for this can benefit you and your children.